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Nearly 60% of American workers are checked out at their jobs. Meanwhile, every graduation speech in history tells you to follow your passion and you'll never work a day in your life. So which is it?
In this episode, Drew and I debate both sides. I argue for passion. He argues for practicality. And what we discover along the way is that the whole question is kind of a false dichotomy. We get into the psychology of harmonious vs. obsessive passion (and why one leads to fulfillment while the other led Kurt Cobain to write "I don't have the passion anymore" in his suicide note). We talk survivorship bias, Maslow's hierarchy, and why financial stress literally impairs your ability to think creatively. I share the story of quitting my investment bank job at 24, living on a friend's futon, and knowing within a month that I was never going back. We look at how Jane Goodall took a secretarial job and stumbled into becoming the world's preeminent primatologist. And we land on a phrase I think is way more useful than "follow your passion": develop your passion... because passion isn't something you find, it's something you grow.
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Chapters:
0:00 Introduction
5:15 Round One: The Case for Passion
8:36 The Latin Root of Passion
10:43 Mark's Personal Story
12:49 Rebuttal: Obsessive vs. Harmonious Passion
14:03 The Kurt Cobain Cautionary Tale
19:22 The Tension Between Passion and Balance
24:09 Round Two: The Case for Practicality
24:31 Survivorship Bias
26:00 Financial Stress and Cognitive Impairment
26:54 Bukowski and the Myth of the Starving Artist
29:34 Tolkien, Hemingway, and the Day Job
39:03 Rebuttal: Regret Minimization
43:07 Thoreau and the Half-Lived Life
44:12 The Five Regrets of the Dying
47:11 Financial Security as Its Own Cage
49:11 Power Law Careers
51:37 Give Yourself a Deadline
54:03 The Shadow Career
54:58 Turning Pro Before You Turn Pro
1:00:48 Round Three: Passion Is Fluid
1:04:09 Passion Evolves Like a Relationship
1:05:06 The Jane Goodall Story
1:08:45 The Trent Reznor Story
1:13:05 Adaptability Through Caring
1:18:39 Rebuttal: Career Capital
1:25:00 Cal Newport's So Good They Can't Ignore You
1:28:30 When Career Capital Doesn't Apply
1:31:23 Round Four: What Actually Causes Passion?
1:33:10 Fixed vs. Developed Passion
1:34:04 Self-Determination Theory
1:35:06 The Four Phases of Passion Development
1:37:38 Passion Doesn't Mean It Should Be Your Job
1:47:09 Synthesis: Develop Your Passion
1:52:45 The Two Dimensions: Person and Field
1:58:25 Final Takeaways
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